I Was Burned Out, so I Asked ChatGPT to Plan My Trip to Italy

The heat in London had become unbearable this summer for my partner and me. The air was heavy, the Tube felt like a furnace, and my mind was equally overheated. Work deadlines bled into late nights, and even when I closed my laptop, my brain wouldn’t switch off. My partner was just as restless. We were living in a loop: work, heat, exhaustion, repeat.

We agreed we needed a break, but even the thought of planning an escape felt exhausting. Travel usually means obsessively researching hotels, mapping out the “best” routes, and checking review scores like our sanity depends on it. That didn’t sound like a vacation.

So, in a moment of equal parts desperation and curiosity, I asked ChatGPT to plan it for us. I typed: “Plan us a trip in Italy that’s romantic but off the beaten path.” And just like that, the responsibility was lifted.

What happened was more than a trip. It was a reminder that mental health isn’t only about therapy sessions or meditation apps. It can also be about stepping into the unknown, letting go of control, and breathing in silence where the WiFi fails.

The ground rules: romance without the crowds

We didn’t want luxury resorts or all-inclusive packages. This wasn’t about chasing perfection; it was about finding peace.

Our rules for ChatGPT were simple: keep it affordable, keep it romantic, and steer us away from the tourist conveyor belt.

That meant no Venice gondolas, no Florence gallery queues, and no Rome bus tours. Instead, we wanted pasta dinners in small piazzas, quiet afternoons wandering cobblestone alleys, and moments when we felt like travelers, not tourists.

Part of the reason was practical, but part of it was mental health. We both needed space. We needed to step away from over-planning and over-managing and let someone, or in this case, something else, hold the reins.

The hidden towns we never knew we needed

ChatGPT’s picks were places I’d barely heard of, all linked to a cheap flight into Salerno. The first stop was Salerno itself, often skipped for Amalfi or Positano. Wandering through its medieval centro storico, everyghing felt refreshingly real. We sipped espresso in cafés where no one spoke English and realized this was exactly the kind of grounding we needed.

Next came Cetara, a tiny fishing village famous for anchovies and colatura di alici, a centuries-old fermented fish sauce. It wasn’t glamorous — just pastel houses against rocky cliffs and fishing boats in the harbor. But the village was alive in a way curated destinations rarely are. Eating anchovy spaghetti on a quiet terrace felt more restorative than any fine-dining meal.

The highlight was Atrani, a small spot in Italy. Hidden in Amalfi’s shadow, it’s often ignored, leaving its piazza to locals. We stayed for hours, simply watching life unfold.

In that slowness, the mental fog lifted. Healing, I realized, happens less in the spectacular than in the ordinary.

Disconnected, and finally at peace

The biggest gift of those days was disconnection. In Atrani, the phone signal vanished as we entered the tight medieval alleys. In Cetara, the trattoria had no WiFi, only paper menus stained with olive oil.

In Salerno at sunset, no Instagram landmarks demanded a photo; there were only families strolling the promenade. For once, I wasn’t thinking about my inbox, my to-do list, or how the trip looked to anyone. It felt like exhaling again.

I was fully present with my partner, the landscape, and myself. I noticed boats bobbing in the harbor and bells echoing off the cliffs. My shoulders loosened as I sat still.

Back in the city, I felt rebooted — not cured — because mental health isn’t that simple, but recalibrated. I had proof that the mind doesn’t need a grand fix. Sometimes, it just needs space, silence, and a willingness to wander.

Travel often promises escape but delivers stress: flights, logistics, crowds. Handing the reins to ChatGPT flipped that equation. Letting go of control, I found calm and connection. Stepping off the beaten path, I found something better than relaxation: peace of mind.